I'm feeling a bit lost. I just recently been hurt and humiliated by someone I thought was a friend. He told me he loved me only after talking on the phone for a few weeks. That should have been a warning sign that he wasn't the right one for me. But I kept the friendship going and got to know him and was considering dating this guy. But after he hurt me I couldn't even be friends with him anymore.
I have another guy telling me he loved me everyday. For years he's been telling me this. I care for him and have thought about going beyond friendship but there is something holding me back. He knows what needs to be done to make things happen. But it's not my place to tell someone what to do with their life. Been there done that. I know now that I'm not in control of anyone else but myself.
It's not my place to judge. I don't want anyone to judge me, so why would I judge anyone else? If he wants things to work out; he will do what it takes to make things happen.
